There are friends and relatives in the neighborhood who are enthusiastic about Zhang Luo, and there are classmates gathering company associations. They can also make friends through social software in their leisure time. There are so many opportunities for “dismissal”. Why are so many people unable to find objects? Mr. Li believes that the more self-set limits, the harder it is to find objects. “Whether the man and the woman should re-examine their own requirements. We must treat ourselves correctly and treat others correctly.” Mr. Liu believes that economic pressure is also one of the important reasons. “Now the house prices have risen so fast, the wages have not risen at all. I can’t afford it, can I raise two? Single is forced by life.” “Because of the development of the Internet, you can satisfy your social needs without going out, and there are fewer occasions to make friends, so there is only Down.” Miss Wang believes that the modern lifestyle has made the social circle smaller and smaller. The reasons for the five types of love that lead to young people are similar, but there are reasons for each. Peng Guoqiu, director of the psychology and medicine clinic of the First Affiliated Hospital of the People’s Liberation Army General Hospital (304), said that the reasons for the singles of young people are very complicated. There are five main reasons for summing up: “Learning makes me happy” Some people bury their heads during school. Hard study, no time to fall in love or do not want to fall in love, wait until leaving the campus to enter the society, and then rush into the busy work, thus delaying the fall in love. I want to improve myself. With the advancement of society and the rising cost of living, the demands of both men and women in love are getting higher and higher. The appearance, body, career, personality, hobbies, etc. have become the criteria for selecting a partner. In this case, some people will choose to upgrade themselves first, and then have enough conditions to pursue happiness. “There was a snake bite, ten years of fear of the well rope.” Therefore, people who are afraid of falling in love are divided into two types. The first one has had a love experience, but in the end they ended up breaking up, and their spirit or body was hurt. The tragic emotional experience makes them not want to fall in love again, so they give up the opportunity to fall in love again; the second is to understand the tragic love experience of the people around them, and they have feared love and refused to fall in love because of fear of being hurt. Want to be a “single aristocrat” Some people like to be free and unconcerned, hate being tied, enjoy a single life, so they will not fall in love. Seeking Idols as Standards Some people have their own expectations and standards for feelings, but their expectations and standards are far from the real life. The Internet has narrowed the distance between people, so that good people can be well known by the public and become idols of many people. Some people will use the advantages of idols as the standard of mate selection, but in real life, they encounter the type of idols. The probability that a person has a relationship with them is very low, so this has become the reason for a single person.